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How to Hand Cancel Mail (and Why You Might Want To)

September 17, 2020 Posted by Stephanie Invitations, Planning, Weddings

What does it mean to “hand cancel mail”, anyway?

When it comes to wedding invitations, hand-canceling is a term you’ll see thrown around a lot. Ideally, you’d be able to pick up your invitations from the calligrapher on Monday night and pop ’em in the mailbox Tuesday morning. But wedding invitations, being big, bulky, and expensive, usually require a little more TLC than that. One way to ensure your invitations are delivered in one piece is by having them hand-canceled at the post office.

How to hand cancel mail and why you might want to

What does “hand cancel” mean?

Nowadays, most post offices use machines to sort mail and mark each stamp so that they can’t be re-used. But when it comes to irregular or delicate items, you may want your stamps to be marked by hand (with a special stamp provided by USPS) rather than going through the sorting machine.

One of the biggest questions we get is 'how do I hand cancel mail?'. Turns out it's a lot easier and cheaper than you'd think. Click through to learn what it is and when you might want to do it.

Why should you hand cancel wedding invitations?

Mail sorting machines can rip, tear, smudge or stain oddly-sized or delicate pieces of mail. Things like large wedding invitations and wax seals are more likely to be ripped or torn, so it’s recommended that you hand-cancel the postage on these items. By using a hand-stamp, you’re essentially ensuring that your invitations arrive unblemished and in one piece.

Who hand cancels envelopes?

An employee at your local post office should be able to hand cancel mail for you. But since most post offices are understaffed (and overworked!), they might ask you to do the hand-canceling while they oversee the process. In that case, they’ll give you a stamp and let you go to town while they help other customers, then come back to verify your work before placing your invitations in the outgoing mail.

Be forewarned, some postal workers refuse to hand-cancel altogether. In that case, I recommend either talking to the branch manager or taking your invites to another branch (you can always call first just to make sure they’ll do it before driving all the way out there.) At the end of the day, it’s a service that post office may decline to do.

We've heard all the horror stories: those expensive wedding invitations end up crumpled, smudged or torn to shreds in the mail. If you'd like to protect your invites, you might want to hand cancel your invites for peace of mind. Here's how to hand cancel mail the right way.

How much extra postage do I need to hand cancel envelopes?

As of 2020, hand-cancelling requires an extra $0.21 postage for each envelope, but it’s not always enforced. Therefore, if your envelope is less than 1-ounce and only requires 1 stamp ($0.55), you will need to provide a total of $0.76 in postage.

If your envelope weighs between 1 and 2 ounces, you’ll need to provide $0.91 in postage.

For up-to-date postage rates, click here.

Does hand canceling take longer?

Yes. Since the post office usually uses a machine to sort and cancel mail, doing it by hand will certainly take a little bit more time. Whether you’re doing the stamping yourself or a postal worker is doing it for you, it’s best to plan a visit to the post office when they’re least busy. Mid-morning is usually a good bet, but it may be worth asking your postal worker what time of day is the slowest at their particular branch.

Oh, and it never hurts to tip! Just sayin’.

Do I need to hand cancel my return envelopes?

Nope! It’s best just to send those through the sorting machines so you don’t (a) waste your money or (b) confuse guests and deter them from returning their RSVP card.

Although it sounds complicated, it’s not, I promise! And a lot of my brides can vouch for that, too. If you’re still unsure of how the whole process works or what current hand-canceling rates are, it’s best to reach out to your local post office for an expert opinion.

Did I miss anything? We’d love to hear from you so leave your questions in the comments.

The information contained on this Website and the resources available for download through this website are for educational and informational purposes only. I am only sharing what worked for me, and as such, I cannot guarantee that any products or processes will give you the same results.

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  • Lauren Packnick
    · Reply

    December 9, 2019 at 3:06 PM

    I only request hand canceling once a year—for fancy Christmas envelopes that I spend SO much time on. I don’t want machine marks mucking them up. So we moved from Hawaii to Alabama this year (because Navy) and I request my usual hand canceling and the clerks in this small post office both high hand me and argue that what I want is not possible without also getting a “proof of mailing” and it will cost me $1.15 PER ENVELOPE!! What the what?! Then when I said there must be some mistake or something, they point passive aggressively to a printed sign saying they don’t cancel at the desk. And then one of them gave me the postmaster’s phone number. They said it’s been regulation for years now and I must be wrong. I said I’ve gotten this service for years now with no interruption—my post guy in Hawaii even handed me the red stamp to do it myself at the side of the desk. I am happy to do it myself—this year I have like 60 or 70 cards to mail. Just needed to vent to folks who probably understand why I’m upset. I spent all that time writing everything and making them special for Christmas and now when they arrive, they’ll have ugly black markings on them. Ugh. So frustrating.

    • Stephanie
      · Reply

      January 14, 2020 at 3:08 PM

      Oh, no! That’s so frustrating. I have heard that hand-canceling varies from post office to post office. Some will happily do it for you, others won’t.

  • Alexa
    · Reply

    January 11, 2020 at 8:46 PM

    Hi there — hope all is well! reading your article was so helpful! I just sent a test invitation to my parents, and I have a question regarding how it arrived. My envelopes are a pale pink, and while I had the post office hand cancel, at the bottom of the envelope the typical barcode is on an ugly white background. Typically this postal bar code (which is black) just simply appears at the bottom, without any need for a white background. Have you ever seen this before / is there something that I can do to avoid this when sending out the remainder of the invites? It looks strange and is clashing with the pink. THANK YOU!

    • Stephanie
      · Reply

      January 14, 2020 at 3:04 PM

      Hi Alexa. That seems to be something that varies post office to post office, especially when using colored envelopes. And as far as I know there’s sadly no way around it.

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